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Sex Tips - Your First Time sex
First time sex is reckoned by many. Did you like the experience or do you remember it with a lot of disgust? If you are not yet there i know you anticipate for the experience. Why are you always dreaming about making love to your new catch. Because the first impression matters. It might be your very first time to have sex or a first time sex with a lover. You two have never been together again sexually so the conduct will be highly judged. First time sex is sensitive since it determines our views about sex. Loosing virginity is not a simple idea. One thing is for sure that you certainly never forget your first time sex. Here i have some tips to see you through your first time sex.
Self sexual awareness is very important. Get to learn what turns you on and feels better than the other. Here i am advocating for masturbation. Touch yourself and learn what feels good. This will help you communicate during your first time sex with a partner. Tell him/her what drives you crazy. Try as much as possible to be sober since you want to remember the experience for a long time. Most people think that alcohol or drugs will make the first time sex easier but i beg to disagree. When you are sober you will not do anything regrettable. All the moves will be well calculated.
Whatever you do make your first time sex safe. It is a funny sex myth that the first encounter should be flesh to flesh. You do not want to get sexually transmitted diseases and conceive with the first time. It would be an ugly incident. For great first time sex, you must fantasize. Great goals are achieved through dreams. You have to imagine to see it. Keep on imagining how you would make love to your partner or how she would make love to you. How she would feel. On the other hand, avoid great unrealistic expectations. First time sex is to help you learn each others chemistry. What turns them on and turns you on. If you fail to reach orgasm, do not make fuss about it.
During first time sex you should know that sex is not all about the interaction of your sexual organs. It is also about flesh to flesh type of love as you express the desire for love. Take your time and undress slowly by slowly while you appreciate every piece of flesh newly exposed . Their will be plenty of time to do the actual thing in the future if you learn each other at this crucial moment. Smell her armpits, bite her neck, kiss her belly, cuddle her breasts, massage her elbows or buttocks and do all the unusual things. There is so much erotism in this. Many people spoil the first time sex by engaging in rough direct penetrative sex. If you do this i doubt if you will be looking forward for a repeat of the same. When first time sex is made of sexual study it builds anticipation. You will be looking forward to doing it again and again.
Eat Me
Great sex, like a great meal, is bursting with ways to delight your senses. Incorporating tastes, textures, and smells from the kitchen into your sex life is not only delicious, but it can make sex incredibly exotic and exciting as well. Think about how sexy it is to watch the object of your desire seductively lick, suck, or nibble on their food; now imagine them licking, sucking, or nibbling that tasty morsel off you.
The kitchen is ripe with props to use for a delicious romp. Use items with especially appealing smells, tastes, textures, or temperatures. One particularly delectable treat to try is nutella. It's sticky (less runny than chocolate sauce), and ever so tasty. Try spreading it on your partner's armpits, nipples, loins, toes, wrists etc. Then lap away and watch your partner go wild while you enjoy a yummy treat. A fun game, I learned about recently involves blindfolding your partner then spreading things on their erogenous zones and have them guess what it is as you lick, suck, or gnaw it off them. You can give them hints by kissing them after licking it off or slipping one of your treat-laden fingers into their mouth. You can also give them some tasty hints to your own pleasure trail by smearing a little pathway along your body that you'd like them to follow with their tongue. Another game is to paint pictures or messages on your partner and have them guess what you're drawing. Some caveats here: people are often tempted to heat things like marshmallows and hot fudge sauce. Please do remember that one's naughty bits are especially sensitive so checking the temperature before application is imperative. Also feel free to spread food over the body, but inserting food into the vagina is a no-no. If you like the thought of new tastes in the bedroom, but don't want the mess, try flavored condoms or lubes (a nice one to try is the new "Good Head" minty lube at www.intimategifts.com).
Hot and cold sensations are also very stimulating. Tracing an ice cube or Popsicle over your partner's body (preferably once you've gotten them a little hot and bothered) will drive your partner wild. Drive them even crazier by alternating between hot and cold by kissing or licking them after taking sips of ice water and then hot water or tea (again I don't mean scorching hot here).
You can also appeal to sensation by using carbonation like champagne bubbles. Pour a little bubbly on to your partner's nipples and then allow it to bubble a little before you slurp it up, for extra pleasure blow on the bubbles as they fizz. Another sensational trick is using mentholatum or minty product to thrill your partner. Brush your teeth, or pop a mint or lozenge in your mouth before going down on your man or before kissing your lady's nipples. There is an extra exhilarating sensation both from the freshness, but also the extra texture as you move it around in your mouth against the skin. There is a heated internal debate among the Naughty Girl Collective over which is more effective here altoids or halls. Not sure who you agree with? Only one way to find out …
The P-Spot
Ah the perineum, that sweet little patch of skin located between the scrotum or vulva and anus. I'll never forget the first time I happened upon the area in question; just tracing my fingers and then tongue over the perineum nearly had him levitating off the bed. It was like magic! Or so I thought, as it turns out the perineum is a sensory jackpot; jam-packed with nerve endings. Tantric sex practitioners have long known the power of stimulating the perineum. Stirring a little excitement in the area is said to unleash latent energy, release endorphins, and increase blood flow, all leading to greater pleasure.
Ok, I know that's all well and good, but I bet your wondering how to unleash all this pleasure. It's almost too easy! Even for the most self-conscious lover, this zone is user-friendly. It's got none of the intimidating geography of places located slightly north or south. The perineum is a simple little patch of skin that just wants a little TLC. Massaging it, tracing your finger over it, sucking and licking it all do the trick. When massaging, pressure should be firm, but not fierce. Whilst licking or stroking this area it's good to get a rhythm or pattern going. I like to trace a figure eight with my tongue which seems to work nicely :).
Stimulate the area is once your partner is already excited. During oral sex or a hand job, drop downwards and begin to fire things up in the p-spot. Another wonderful idea is to massage the area during or just before he cums. Guys, those lucky sucks, are more sensitive in this area than women, but we in the Naughty Girl Collective would like to remind you fellas not to neglect our p-spots either! Although it's a little less powerful, p-spot stimulation is pleasurable for women as well. Many guys feel compelled to focus all their attention on the upper region of women's genitals while going down on her or touching her. Don't get me wrong … we would like you to spend a lot of time up there, but it's worthwhile to dip down to the lower area and perineum as well. But don't take my word for it, get down there and see for yourself!
Good Things Come To Those Who Wait
Somebody recently asked me what I thought was the secret ingredient to a good lover. I was searching for some magic trick or talent that sets good lovers apart from the bad when I realized, the best lover I ever had didn’t have any fancy tricks up his sleeve, he simply appreciated the fine art of foreplay. Oftentimes we get so excited and swept away when we know we’re about to get some that we just go right for the gold. Now I’m not saying that there isn’t a time and a place for a good quickie, but rather that we should invest the time into foreplay when and where we have the opportunity and willpower. Taking the time and delaying the pleasure even by a few minutes can dramatically intensify and improve your sexual encounter.
I’ve often heard people joke about not believing in foreplay and ask only half-kiddingly what the point is. What’s in it for me you ask? Plenty! The more you please your partner the more into the sex they will be, and the more likely they are to want to reciprocate. Plus, it’s exciting and satisfying to know that you can drive your partner mad with lust. It’s always nice to feel wanted, and trust me after a healthy dose of foreplay; you’ll have your partner begging you to get down.
There’s also the obvious advantage that ensures that you are both physically ready for sex. For women this is crucial, because it means that she will be wetter and lubrication in the genitals means more pleasure for the woman and a more enjoyable ride for her partner.
Urgent hurried sex can be a lot of fun, but you do lose a lot in the mix. Slowly seducing your partner allows you to try different techniques, apply different intensities and explore less obvious erogenous zones. Try touching, licking, kissing, and sucking your partner all over and watch their reactions to discover their unique turn-ons. If you hear a little gasp or moan or notice their breathing getting heavier, chances are you’re on the right track. Knowing how to push each others buttons will increase pleasure and also allow you to get to know each other more intimately.
Work slowly towards the actual sex. Leave their genitals for last, but tease them by lavishing attention on their stomachs and thighs. Let them know the sex is coming, but delay it until you both can’t stand it anymore then give in and treat your sex to wild sex. This naughty girl assures you … anticipation is a potent aphrodisiac.
Natural Changes In Women
While it is a fallacy to assume that as we age we lose our desire for sexual intimacy, it is true that some natural changes in the body may affect how we experience sex. Sexual changes in women are natural and a result of the body's changing role in its post-fertile stages. The most significant changes sexually are related to menopause, or the cessation of ovulation. These changes may require a new outlook on sex and the way it is practiced. Knowing the facts about how the body changes is the first step.
How does menopause affect the body sexually?
Menopause is perhaps the greatest physical change a woman faces in middle age. Menopause generally alters sexual response and even the physical structure of the vagina. The major changes with regards to sex are thinning and shortening of the vaginal canal and decreased lubrication. This is sometimes accompanied by a decrease in the size of the vagina. Fatty deposits found in the labia majora are lost causing a typically smaller vagina than in earlier life. The combination of reduced lubrication and a smaller vagina may make coitus uncomfortable.
What can be done to counteract these changes?
Lubrication
The single best way to make sex more comfortable after menopause is the use of personal lubricants during sex. One popular choice is Astroglide, which is available in online and in many stores. Astroglide is very popular because it is extremely viscous and has a faint pleasant taste. If you don't know where to start, then it's your best bet. Shop around at sensual boutiques and experiment with different lubricants.
Replacing the body's natural lubrication can make sex as exciting and rewarding as it was before. The clitoris and other sexual organs are still sexually sensitive, and remain so throughout life.
You can also try I.D. Pleasure a high-market lubricant containing L-Arginine. L-Arginine is a non-essential amino acid which, through clinical testing, has been shown to enhance sexual arousal in both men and women. When ID Pleasure is applied to the clitoris, vaginal walls or penis for lubrication the L-Arginine will increase the blood flow to the region, heightening sensitivity. Heightened sensitivity, in turn, naturally results in a greater responsiveness to sexual stimulation.
Positive Thinking
Thinking positively about menopause is also important. Menopause is a meaningful time in a woman's life which has some significant benefits. Pregnancy is no longer possible and many women feel that this decreases their level of anxiety during sex. They find themselves more relaxed so they enjoy the experience more. Abstaining from sex during menstruation (which so many couples unnecessarily do) are no longer issues in a woman's life. As a result many women find menopause to be quite a relief. Additionally, the shrinkage in the size of the vagina may mean that more direct and intense stimulation takes place. A smaller vagina means more friction and closer contact with the nerves which produce sexual pleasure. Aging can create a new range of sensations as long as couples learn how to adapt.
Hormone Treatments
Hormone replacement therapy is a way some women deal with menopausal side effects. This may or may not be an option for you. Ask your physician for the facts on this treatment possibility.