Top Places To Make Out
Your bed is a logical place to make out. It’s comfortable, it’s private and if the make out session leads to sex, there will be no need for awkwardly getting up and walking to another part of the house. It’s no wonder most of us think of our bedrooms when it’s time to get busy. However, if you’ve only ever made out in beds, it’s time to push your boundaries and get frisky out in the world. Here are AM’s top places to make out.
How To Have Sex In A Car
Getting off in your car is not as easy as it may sound. For those of you who have ever attempted it, you might have noticed the typical difficulties: avoiding hard objects like seats, steering wheels, dashboards, and gear sticks, and getting into a comfortable enough position to actually finish the job at hand.
Success partly depends on the type of car you have, so you will need to adjust the following suggestions on how to have sex in a car to apply to your own vehicle. These guidelines generally apply to a medium-size, four-door sedan.
Here are some tips to make your ride a little easier.
Imagination is a virtue: use it.
Success partly depends on the type of car you have, so you will need to adjust the following suggestions on how to have sex in a car to apply to your own vehicle. These guidelines generally apply to a medium-size, four-door sedan.
Here are some tips to make your ride a little easier.
positions and activities
There are several positions that make sex in a car easier and more fun. When you're trying to figure out how to have sex in a car, consider these maneuvers and locations:The back seat
This can be woman-on-top or man-on-top, with the bottom participant lying on the back seat or the guy sitting. It works better if you pull the front seats as far forward as you can, to give you more room.The front passenger seat
Push the seat as far back as it will go and take a seat. Your partner can ride you facing you or facing the windscreen with her hands on the dash for support.The outside of the car
The hood of the car is a wonderful platform for all kinds of activities: You can go down on her while she rests her legs on your shoulders, her bottom on the edge of the car or you can enter her from front or behind while she leans her body on the hood -- and you get fresh air at the same time.While driving
Your girl can easily get your appendage in her mouth while you drive -- slowly and carefully, for both of you. Avoid bumps or potholes and keep your eye on the road at all times, and if you feel like you are losing it, pull over immediately. A blow job is not worth damaging your car or losing the use of your legs or worse, your girlfriend's or someone else’s life.Safety
There are many ways to get into a pickle while you try to have sex in a car: You, your partner’s and Joe Public’s physical safety are of paramount importance, simply because while you are so distracted you can’t keep your eye on other things. The key here is getting sorted before you start. So, park somewhere where you won’t roll off a cliff or get clipped by other vehicles, pull on the hand brake firmly and do your seat adjustments before you start.Law
Most places in the world prohibit public displays of indecency, which is exactly what you are proposing to do when you try to figure out how to have sex in a car. You can be arrested, you can be fined, and you can be very, very embarrassed. However, in some countries, you can and will be arrested and sent to prison to serve a sentence for being so disrespectful.things to keep in mind
Keep handy some tissues or a roll of toilet paper for cleaning up, possibly a small pillow for extra comforts, water or a drink to refresh, and condoms. Avoid candles, as they are a fire hazard.Cleanliness
You need to make sure you car is clean. Crumpled snotty tissues, takeout containers with old food in them, or McDonald’s cups leaking old flat Coke are not hot, and will detract from your efforts to have sex in a car. Crumbs and sand/dirt on the back seat will be itchy and uncomfortable, so vacuum! Do a quick clean up before your date. Condoms can also help to prevent sticky messes in the car. Without a lecture on safe sex, in a very practical sense they keep you, your girl and your car clean.Location
Choose your spot reasonably carefully. Keep in mind that any adults or children that may be about don’t need to see you having sex in your car. If exhibitionism is your thing, choose an area that will suit you, i.e., an alleyway in the red light district. Otherwise, choose a quiet spot with some nice scenery, perhaps a nearby waterway, beach or park. If you don’t have a lot of pretty options or gas, an empty parking lot will do the trick. Try to avoid cliche locations where everyone else goes.Imagination is a virtue: use it.
rev it up
Sex in a car is not always great, but with a little thought and planning, you can use this exciting and interesting location within a location to make a little nasty love. Be careful, use your common sense and show respect to the rest of the world, but have plenty of fun. Get a little more inventive once you get the hang of the above positions and enjoy.
Public Sex Positions
Public space is there for all to utilize, so it is your duty as a responsible citizen to make good use of these areas. Summer is a great time for getting your gear off in the great outdoors and making the most of the warmth, and what better way to do that then with public sex positions like the ones listed below?
As the name suggests, you need both a blanket and a pig. Men, being suitably pig-like at times, are designated swine for the outing. Wrap yourselves in a blanket and discreetly wriggle like stuck pigs until you are both satisfied. Save the squealing for later, because there may be people around. Sleeping bags can be used and then you won’t have to worry about naked body parts being suddenly exposed to the outside world -- they also get nice and sweaty with the friction.
Simulate sex with a tree in this position. The intermediary is your lover. She is the tree hugger, facing the tree, with her arms around it protecting the tree from your large and violent axe. Enter her from behind, and she will use her otherworldly powers of manipulation to make you forget all about being a callous tree-murderer. Choose your tree carefully, as despite her love for tall leafy greens, she is prejudiced against certain types of trees -- trunks with a lot of scratchy bark are not worthy of her embraces. She likes them long, smooth, and thick.
Your throbbing member is the tent peg, and your body is the hammer. She is the ground sheet, flat, and spread out, ready for you to make her sturdy and stable with your tools. Peg her to the ground however you need to, and make the most of the ideal position. Once the poles are in, for some variety, she can then make a tent-shape with her body and you can slide the final pole into her satiny fabric -- best done where you would normally pitch a tent.
We've got a few more public sex positions for you to try out under the blazing summer sun
Pig in a Blanket
Locale: Best suited to public parks and beaches.As the name suggests, you need both a blanket and a pig. Men, being suitably pig-like at times, are designated swine for the outing. Wrap yourselves in a blanket and discreetly wriggle like stuck pigs until you are both satisfied. Save the squealing for later, because there may be people around. Sleeping bags can be used and then you won’t have to worry about naked body parts being suddenly exposed to the outside world -- they also get nice and sweaty with the friction.
Lumberjack
Locale: The woods, naturally.Simulate sex with a tree in this position. The intermediary is your lover. She is the tree hugger, facing the tree, with her arms around it protecting the tree from your large and violent axe. Enter her from behind, and she will use her otherworldly powers of manipulation to make you forget all about being a callous tree-murderer. Choose your tree carefully, as despite her love for tall leafy greens, she is prejudiced against certain types of trees -- trunks with a lot of scratchy bark are not worthy of her embraces. She likes them long, smooth, and thick.
Pitch a Tent
Locale: Best suited to a flat area ideal for pitching a tent, such as long grass.Your throbbing member is the tent peg, and your body is the hammer. She is the ground sheet, flat, and spread out, ready for you to make her sturdy and stable with your tools. Peg her to the ground however you need to, and make the most of the ideal position. Once the poles are in, for some variety, she can then make a tent-shape with her body and you can slide the final pole into her satiny fabric -- best done where you would normally pitch a tent.
We've got a few more public sex positions for you to try out under the blazing summer sun
PREGNANCY TIPS: SEX BEFORE AND AFTER PREGNANCY
GREAT EXPECTATIONS
By Dr Ann Tan, Consultant Obstetrician & Gynaecologist |
Women and Fetal Centre, a member of Pacific Healthcare Holdings
reprinted with permission from "Great Expectations by Today's Parents magazine
By Dr Ann Tan, Consultant Obstetrician & Gynaecologist |
Women and Fetal Centre, a member of Pacific Healthcare Holdings
reprinted with permission from "Great Expectations by Today's Parents magazine
Until what stage of pregnancy can I still have sex?
Actually both sex and pregnancy are natural events and you can enjoy them concurrently so long as you do not experience any undue pain or bleeding. If you have any particular pregnancy problems of preterm labour/ incompetent cervix or multiple pregnancy, you should consult your obstetrician on the advisability of intercourse. The use of condoms may help to reduce the uterine reactivity by preventing semen from contact with the cervix.
How soon can I have sex after my baby is born?
There is no hard and fast rule and usually the woman is ready in four to six weeks post normal vaginal delivery and Caesarean section too! The vaginal wound is usually a little firm initially but should stretch out once activity is resumed while in the case of a Caesarean delivery, there should be no difference at all. For the latter, deep penetration may cause stretching of the Caesarean scar and that may initially be uncomfortable.
I am six months pregnant and find myself surprisingly more turned on than usual. Why is that?
The hormones of pregnancy are making you more curvy than before and it’s very natural that you might feel more sexy than ever before! Enjoy!
Top 10 Sex Tips for the Older Woman
1. Talk With Your Partner
Open communication has always been essential for good sex. Talk with your partner about any sexual difficulties you might be having as a couple. Try to treat the difficulties as problems to solve and work together on finding creative solutions.2. Lubricate
As a woman ages, natural lubrication for sexual intercourse decreases. This is easily fixed by using a water-based lubricant. At first, applying a lubricant for sex may seem awkward, but you and your partner will quickly become used to it and can even incorporate it into foreplay.3. Experiment with Positions and Times
Pain caused by arthritis or other condition can interfere with sex. Experiment with different sexual positions, and you may find one that works much better. Also, arthritis and other pain conditions are often less severe at certain times a day, which will vary for each person. Try having sex when your pain is the least severe.4. Deal with Erectile Problems
For men, trouble having an erection is an expected part of aging. If this happens to your partner, gently help him troubleshoot this problem. Lifestyle changes and medications that can help.5. Feel Beautiful
We live in a culture that is constantly showing us images of youth and beauty. As women age, they may feel less sexually attractive, which can interfere with sexual desire. Try not to be influenced by these cultural messages. Sure, your body changes as you age, but that does not reflect on your worth or desirability. Ignore messages and stereotypes from television, magazines and other media sources and embrace your body at every stage of your life.6. Take Care of Your Health
Poor health can interfere with sexual satisfaction. If you have a health condition, be sure to the manage it. Follow your doctor’s orders and make the lifestyle changes you need to be healthy. Losing weight, exercising and eating well will not only improve your health, your sex life will also improve.7. Sex After Surgery
As women age, they may need to undergo surgical procedures that alter the reproductive organs. The most common are mastectomy (the removal of a breast or part of a breast to treat cancer) or hysterectomy (the removal of the uterus and sometimes the ovaries). These surgeries do not interfere with a woman’s ability to have sex. However, these procedures can dramatically change how a woman perceives her own attractiveness. Open communication with your partner both before and after these procedures can help reduce anxiety and negativity.8. Safe Sex
Any sexually active adult needs to protect herself from sexually transmitted diseases. Sexually transmitted infections, including HIV, are on the rise in older adults. Older adults have had more time to develop a sexual history. Also, many infections can remain dormant for years in people. Do not assume that an older sexual partner is a safe sexual partner. Always practice safe sex.9. Talk to Your Doctor
If you or your partner are having sexual difficulties, talk to your doctor. There may be simple solutions to your problems such as changing the time of day that you take a medication or making lifestyle changes. Expect that you will have to make adjustments in your life and sexual habits as you age. Your doctor can help your these adaptations go smoothly.10. Vibrators and Masturbation
It is a simple fact that men have shorter life expectancies than women, resulting in a large number of older widowed or single women. Sex and orgasms bring both emotional and physical benefits. Women should not feel guilty about masturbation. Vibrators and other devices can help tremendously.
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A Kinky Sex Move That He’ll Love (And So Will You)
During the past eleven months of blogging on Smitten, I've heard lots of sex tips (and awkward sexual moments!), but this kinky sex move made my eyes pop....
Here's a genius sex tip from Smitten reader Gina:
"One day, I brought saran wrap to my boyfriend's house and wrapped him up like a mummy. I cut holes to let his nipples out, and the sensation was amazing when I rubbed my fingers across his covered skin. Plus, when the saran wrap was peeled off, his skin was ultra sensitive. He was blown away by how cool it was."
Wow. Seriously. Amazing.
What do you guys think? Would you try this funny sex trip?
11 ways to change your weight fate
Simple tips from SELF that can make a big difference for your waistline
Seemingly harmless habits can affect what size you'll be five or 10 years from now. Peek into your future with our quiz. Then use this cheat sheet to target the most effective ways to make a difference. Want to see how you’re doing? Retake this quiz at Self.com to track your progress.Improve your eating
Write off weight. To lower BMI, keep a food journal. Jotting down all bites is the top predictor of weight loss.
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Eat heartily in the a.m. Make your morning meal the main one. Aim for up to 500 calories. Studies show big breakfasts can keep you small.
Start cookin’. Prepare at least half of your meals at home. It’s one of the best methods to ensure you take in more vegetables and less fat.
Snack smarter. Stop smoking and munch right to help your body stay at a healthy weight. For every cup of fruit and vegetables quitters add to their daily diet, they reduce their chances of gaining weight by 13 percent, a study in The American Journal of Clinical Nutrition reports.
Cut calories in your cup. Limit yourself to one glass daily of soda or alcohol. Replacing caloric beverages with water can help you drop up to 20 pounds in a year.
Get your brain on board
Chill. Relaxing daily can lower the stress hormones that spur overeating, a study from Harvard Medical School in Boston finds. Carve out 20 minutes each day to commune with nature: Regular visits to areas with trees reduce stress.
Swap reruns for sleep. Replace half an hour of television watching with additional shut-eye daily and you’ll wake up with lower levels of hunger hormones. Plus, it’s easier to make healthy choices when you’re rested and energized.
13 simple tips for seriously better sex
Never in the mood? These surprising secrets will have you craving more
Can you remember the last time you couldn’t wait to get home and shimmy between the sheets?
Was it last week, last month? Last... year? We get it: Sometimes it’s easier to give into your excuses — I’m too tired, let’s just do it this weekend, it doesn’t even feel that great to begin with. But we don’t need to tell you that sex is essential for a healthy marriage — and also a healthy you. Research shows that a happy sex life can stamp out stress, reduce heart disease risk, and even improve immunity. But enough of the non-sexy talk. Try just one of these libido-lifting tricks today. You can thank us later.
1. Take a lunchtime stroll
Research shows that the more fit you are, the more sex you’ll crave.
In a study of women ages 45 to 55, sexual satisfaction correlated directly to fitness. "The less exercise they got, the lower their desire and sexual satisfaction," says study author Judith R. Gerber, PhD, a psychologist at the University of Vermont College of Medicine.
2. Book a rubdown
A pampering massage not only relieves stress... but "the skin-on-skin contact stimulates the sex hormone oxytocin," says Ian Kerner, PhD, author of "She Comes First."
"The more oxytocin released, the more desire a woman will feel." If you don’t want to spring for a full hour-plus session (which can cost $100 or more), tack on a 10-minute session at the nail salon after a manicure.
3. Read something hot
Skip the evening news and flip through a sexy novel instead.
Erotic literature "can quickly jump-start arousal," says Carol Queen, PhD, a sexologist who works at Good Vibrations, a female-owned sex shop in San Francisco. She recommends the Herotica series, written by women, and "The Diary of Anais Nin."
"Perfect for anyone who's not ready to get into bold four-letter words," says Queen.
4. Get really relaxed
Just a few meditation sessions can jack up your sex drive and speed arousal.
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5. Pop a multi
Too tired to feel sexy? It may be a diet deficiency.
Two overlooked nutrients may be to blame for sex-derailing exhaustion. "Low folate levels can make you feel tired, with no energy for sex," says Martha Morris, PhD, a Tufts University researcher; national surveys show that many women aren't getting enough of this B vitamin. And low iron can deplete brain neurotransmitters, which can lead to lethargy, says Swiss researcher Bernard Favrat, MD. The fix for both problems: a daily multivitamin with 100% of the DV for iron (18 mg) and folate (400 mcg).
6. Break a sweat beforehand
Exercise primes your body to get in the mood.
For some people, exercising too close to bedtime makes it hard for them to sleep. Take advantage of that found energy. "After 35 to 40 minutes of moderate exercise, everything in your body is going right," says Janet Hyde, PhD, a professor of psychology and women's studies at the University of Wisconsin-Madison. "Your blood is circulating, your nervous system is firing, so scheduling sex right after you exercise makes for good sex."
7. Smell your way sexy
These surprising scents will move you from the kitchen to the bedroom.
Cucumber, licorice, and baby powder have been shown to turn women on, increasing vaginal blood flow by 13 percent. Pumpkin pie and lavender increase blood flow by 11 percent. Try this: To cap a romantic dinner, serve pumpkin pie and keep a cucumber-scented sachet next to your pillow.
8. Ask about those little blue pillsThe same meds that put your partner in the mood may also give your sex drive a lift.
Pills like Viagra increase blood flow to the genital area — something women need for arousal just as much as men do. Though the FDA hasn't approved the pill for women, doctors can prescribe it off-label. Ask your healthcare provider if these meds might help you too.
So if your sex drive stinks because your whoopee lacks whoop or your hormones are running amok, a physical boost may re-ignite interest, says Laura Berman, PhD, founder of the Berman Center. However, if you're slumped because you hate your thighs, resent your husband, or are simply more overworked than worked up, no pill will put you in the mood. It may just give you another headache — a common side effect. Your best bet is to work through those issues.
9. Check your medicine cabinet
Any antidepressants in there? They could be stealing your orgasm.
Selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs), a class of drugs that includes Prozac and Zoloft, "are probably the number one cause of anorgasmia [inability to have an orgasm]," says Andrew Goldstein, MD, of the Sexual Wellness Center in Annapolis, MD. They short-circuit your pleasure center by decreasing levels of the brain chemical dopamine (one of the sexual triumvirate, along with estrogen and testosterone). "People on SSRIs can lack that full range of emotion. They don't get very depressed about anything, but they don't get very excited about anything, either," says Goldstein.
If that zombie-like feeling is torpedoing your love life, ask your doctor whether you could switch to Wellbutrin, a drug that raises dopamine levels (preliminary studies show it may improve sexual desire in non-depressed women). One con: Wellbutrin can cause anxiety, which is common in depressed people. If you're taking a shorter-acting SSRI, such as Zoloft or the serotonin-norepinephrine reuptake inhibitor Effexor, you may be able — with your doc's okay — to take a short drug holiday. "If you don't take it Friday morning, on Friday night and Saturday you can have intercourse and have an orgasm," says Goldstein.
10. Patch it up
If your sex drive has cooled down — because of hormone abnormalities or surgery — a testosterone patch may help rekindle your fire.
Over half of the 64 women who tried it in a University Hospitals of Cleveland study reported a big boost — nearly twice those with a placebo patch — resulting in four or five additional "satisfying" sexual episodes per month. Keep in mind: The patches are approved only for men, though about 20 percent are prescribed for women off-label.
10 Sex Tips for a Magical Wedding Night
How to make sex on your wedding night unforgettable
There's a general national myth about wedding nights; supposedly, every bride and groom have the most intimate and wonderful sex of their lives on their wedding nights. In reality, while your wedding night may be a little different, it is an intimate moment, and an opportunity. Here are ten tips that can help make your wedding night one of the best evenings of your life.
Take things slowly
Savor this moment. While you may be a little too tired to have the most technically excellent sex of your lives, this is likely to be among your most romantic and intimate sexual experiences.
Lower your expectations
So this may not be the most amazing sex you've ever had. So what? Try to just enjoy whatever happens.
Read some sex books
Who couldn't use a little advice from the experts? Some to try: The Good Vibrations Guide to Sex, Sex Tips for Straight Women from a Gay Man and Lesbian Sex Secrets for Men.
Talk to each other
Spend some time relaxing, talking about the wedding, and about your love for each other. Let things get romantic and sappy. The sex that follows will be intimate and amazing.
Expand your idea of the "wedding night"
If you're too tired for foreplay, that sex isn't going to be so great. Couldn't it be better to wait until the morning?
Flirt with each other during the wedding
It can be easy to spend the whole wedding greeting Aunt Sally and Cousin Bob, cutting the cake, and attending to a thousand other details. Don't forget to stop, stare into each other's eyes, share a few extra kisses, and flirt with each other. It will also help build the excitement for your alone time later.
Don't have sex with each other for a couple of weeks before the wedding
Many couples try this to make the wedding night sex fresh and new again. Others go even further by giving up sex months before the wedding so that they may be virgin-like on the wedding night.
Try something new
Perhaps there's been something you've been wanting to try? Your wedding night can be a fun night to experiment,
Wear something special
Wedding night lingerie can really help the mood. Pick something a little different than what you usually wear to excite your partner. Make sure you feel confident in it, as a confident lover is almost always a better lover.
Set the stage
Help yourselves get into the mood by setting the stage. Light some candles, bring some CDs and a radio, scatter rosepetals, or do whatever helps you get in the mood. And don't be afraid to kick friends and family out early. While they may tease you a little, they'll certainly understand!
It's also a good idea to accept the fact that you may be too exhausted or tipsy to have sex. If one of you falls asleep, or isn't in the mood, remember, it's not a prediction of a doomed marriage. Spend the time relaxing and remembering how wonderful your wedding day was. And, if you'll be a virgin on your wedding night
There's a general national myth about wedding nights; supposedly, every bride and groom have the most intimate and wonderful sex of their lives on their wedding nights. In reality, while your wedding night may be a little different, it is an intimate moment, and an opportunity. Here are ten tips that can help make your wedding night one of the best evenings of your life.
Take things slowly
Savor this moment. While you may be a little too tired to have the most technically excellent sex of your lives, this is likely to be among your most romantic and intimate sexual experiences.
Lower your expectations
So this may not be the most amazing sex you've ever had. So what? Try to just enjoy whatever happens.
Read some sex books
Who couldn't use a little advice from the experts? Some to try: The Good Vibrations Guide to Sex, Sex Tips for Straight Women from a Gay Man and Lesbian Sex Secrets for Men.
Talk to each other
Spend some time relaxing, talking about the wedding, and about your love for each other. Let things get romantic and sappy. The sex that follows will be intimate and amazing.
Expand your idea of the "wedding night"
If you're too tired for foreplay, that sex isn't going to be so great. Couldn't it be better to wait until the morning?
Flirt with each other during the wedding
It can be easy to spend the whole wedding greeting Aunt Sally and Cousin Bob, cutting the cake, and attending to a thousand other details. Don't forget to stop, stare into each other's eyes, share a few extra kisses, and flirt with each other. It will also help build the excitement for your alone time later.
Don't have sex with each other for a couple of weeks before the wedding
Many couples try this to make the wedding night sex fresh and new again. Others go even further by giving up sex months before the wedding so that they may be virgin-like on the wedding night.
Try something new
Perhaps there's been something you've been wanting to try? Your wedding night can be a fun night to experiment,
Wear something special
Wedding night lingerie can really help the mood. Pick something a little different than what you usually wear to excite your partner. Make sure you feel confident in it, as a confident lover is almost always a better lover.
Set the stage
Help yourselves get into the mood by setting the stage. Light some candles, bring some CDs and a radio, scatter rosepetals, or do whatever helps you get in the mood. And don't be afraid to kick friends and family out early. While they may tease you a little, they'll certainly understand!
It's also a good idea to accept the fact that you may be too exhausted or tipsy to have sex. If one of you falls asleep, or isn't in the mood, remember, it's not a prediction of a doomed marriage. Spend the time relaxing and remembering how wonderful your wedding day was. And, if you'll be a virgin on your wedding night
Sex Tips for Virgins on Their Wedding Night
How to Make Your Wedding Night Unforgettable
If you'll be a virgin when you get married, you're probably feeling some apprehension about what will happen on your wedding night. Here are tips and advice to help things go smoothly.
How to Communicate BEFORE the wedding night
Pick a quiet moment to ask your soon-to-be-spouse "are you feeling nervous at all about our wedding night?" Odds are, he or she will be relieved to have the opportunity to talk about it. Talk about what your hopes and fears are. You may want to visit a counselor, or talk about sex during your pre-wedding counseling. If you are too nervous to bring up the subject of sex, consider leaving a magazine open, or even forwarding this article in an email.
Will she bleed? Will it be painful?
When a woman loses her virginity, it is possible for it to be a little bloody or painful. However, it shouldn't last for too long, and it is almost never very serious. To make things easier, make sure there's plenty of foreplay before you try penetration. You'll also want to have a good lubricant. I recommend a brand called "Slippery Stuff" because it is safe to use with latex, and it's glycerin-free. (Glycerin can cause yeast infections.) Even if you use a lubricated condom, you'll want to use extra lube. And, if you're afraid of bleeding on the hotel sheets, bring a towel with you, or your own sheets.
Will he be able to maintain an erection? What happens if he can't?
The pressure of the wedding night can be too much for many men. If things aren't "working," try to change up the mood. Spend some time kissing, and fondling each other. Perhaps make a game out of how many different body parts you can kiss, or be a little more serious by talking about the wedding, your love for each other, and milestones ahead of you.
Will I be any good? How can I wow my new husband or wife?
Sex, like most things, takes practice. You are likely to be a little clumsy and to feel a little goofy. Take things slowly, and try to listen to your partner. Find out what feels good, and what doesn't. Don't be afraid to ask! But don't concentrate on how mind-blowing (or not!) the physical feelings are. Instead try to be gentle with one another, and focus on how amazing it is to finally be in each others arms as a married couple. For tips on making the sex as amazing as possible
If you'll be a virgin when you get married, you're probably feeling some apprehension about what will happen on your wedding night. Here are tips and advice to help things go smoothly.
How to Communicate BEFORE the wedding night
Pick a quiet moment to ask your soon-to-be-spouse "are you feeling nervous at all about our wedding night?" Odds are, he or she will be relieved to have the opportunity to talk about it. Talk about what your hopes and fears are. You may want to visit a counselor, or talk about sex during your pre-wedding counseling. If you are too nervous to bring up the subject of sex, consider leaving a magazine open, or even forwarding this article in an email.
Will she bleed? Will it be painful?
When a woman loses her virginity, it is possible for it to be a little bloody or painful. However, it shouldn't last for too long, and it is almost never very serious. To make things easier, make sure there's plenty of foreplay before you try penetration. You'll also want to have a good lubricant. I recommend a brand called "Slippery Stuff" because it is safe to use with latex, and it's glycerin-free. (Glycerin can cause yeast infections.) Even if you use a lubricated condom, you'll want to use extra lube. And, if you're afraid of bleeding on the hotel sheets, bring a towel with you, or your own sheets.
Will he be able to maintain an erection? What happens if he can't?
The pressure of the wedding night can be too much for many men. If things aren't "working," try to change up the mood. Spend some time kissing, and fondling each other. Perhaps make a game out of how many different body parts you can kiss, or be a little more serious by talking about the wedding, your love for each other, and milestones ahead of you.
Will I be any good? How can I wow my new husband or wife?
Sex, like most things, takes practice. You are likely to be a little clumsy and to feel a little goofy. Take things slowly, and try to listen to your partner. Find out what feels good, and what doesn't. Don't be afraid to ask! But don't concentrate on how mind-blowing (or not!) the physical feelings are. Instead try to be gentle with one another, and focus on how amazing it is to finally be in each others arms as a married couple. For tips on making the sex as amazing as possible
Sex Tips From Guys
20 top sex tips for men
Teeth brushed, condom on, socks off? You’re ready for the best sex advice our experts can offer
DR THOMAS STUTTAFORD
1 Men aren’t irresistible and not all women are desperate for sex. Good lovemaking starts long before you reach the bedroom, so before any date, have a bath. Everyone smells: some women like the smell of male sweat, others don’t, but no one likes the smell of stale sweat.
2 Teeth are as important as the groin and armpits. Don’t forget to brush them after your bath. When kissing a girl, or even sitting close to her, she won’t want to smell your bad breath or notice salad between your teeth any more than she’ll want to smell yesterday’s sweat.
3 Avoid a heavy meal before sex. Oysters and asparagus are assumed to be aphrodisiacs, but this is only because of visual or olfactory associations. Champagne is a better bet, but choose a less acidic one, lest exotic Kama Sutra-style acts cause indigestion.
4 Be careful with drink. We all know drinking increases a man’s desire but decreases his ability, but not everyone realises it also affects a woman’s sexual response. More than two or three drinks and some women may be loving but physiologically limited.
5 Any penile discharge or sore, however apparently trivial, means that sex is out. Chlamydia in the male may be almost symptom-free. It may show only as a mild inflammation of the end of the penis, so that the lips are stuck together in the morning.
6 Always use a condom with a new partner, even if she seems as innocent as a nun. Regular partners should still have chlamydia and blood tests.
7 Men fear judgment, whether by colleagues in the office, teammates in the changing room or, above all, by a new girlfriend. Penis size can worry some men. Remember that someone’s penis always looks smaller to the owner than to an onlooker. Women may prefer a medium-size but thick penis but, if a lover is attentive, even if offering a button rather than a baton, it won’t matter.
8 Don’t rush into sex and focus attention immediately on the genitalia. Take it slowly. Learn to massage. This can easily shade into great foreplay, especially if your partner is tired or stressed. Use plenty of lubrication.
9 Make certain that your partner knows how attractive you find her by paying as much attention to kissing her, complimenting her and generally spoiling her. Don’t neglect the breasts and other erogenous zones.
10 Both sexes have off days. Most men occasionally have poor or tardy erections and even fit, athletic, overenthusiastic men, as well as the inexperienced and anxious, may suffer premature ejaculation.
Dr Thomas Stuttaford, the Times doctor, spent many years working in a genitourinary clinic
SUZI GODSON
1 There’s no substitute for excitement. The range of lubricants on the market can add slip and slide, but should never be used as a short cut.
2 There’s more to sex than pushing the right button. Men have discovered that the key to female orgasm is clitoral stimulation, and many now rub the lamp rather than poking around inside it. The upside is that women are climaxing more often but the increase in emphasis on genital manipulation has made for some very mechanical sex. Going straight to the erogenous zones is the equivalent of fast forward. Men who focus on left breast, right breast, genitals, reduce their partner to a set of body parts.
3 Though clitoral orgasm is easy to achieve, most women want to experience penetrative orgasm. Intercourse is the ultimate connection between man and woman and the sensation of fullness that it creates is intensely pleasurable.
4 Women are slow burners. They take longer to become aroused and get as much pleasure, if not more, out of tenderness, kissing and cuddling. Though quickie sex has its place, for women on the whole, the longer sex takes, the better it feels. If arousal is allowed to build gradually, it floods the whole body rather than being confined to the genital area and a delayed orgasm is infinitely more powerful than an orgasm induced by five minutes of digital manipulation.
5 Sexual gymnastics are often distracting. Chopping and changing positions and techniques can make a woman’s sexual excitement plummet.
6 Thrusting for hours without climaxing doesn’t make you a stud muffin. It does make the vagina numb and sore.
7 Don’t assume your partner is comfortable in her own skin. A survey of 3,500 British women, by the bathroom equipment company SHUC, found that one woman in ten feels so embarrassed about her body that she turns the lights out before taking off her clothes. The average woman still spends a lot of time every day beating herself up about her weight and looks. Nakedness increases that vulnerability, so be sensitive to her insecurities and, if you think that your partner looks great, for God’s sake tell her.
8 Be polite. Never nudge your partner’s head towards your nether regions. During fellatio don’t thrust into your partner’s mouth, don’t hold the side of her head – and definitely warn her when you think you are going to come. With regard to orgasm, always operate a ladies-first policy.
9 Put a little X in your sex. Watching steamy movies with your partner will increase the chance that you will have sex.
10 Remember to take your socks off.
Kinky Sex Positions
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The Backstairs Boogie -- Kneel in front of your partner at the landing of a staircase, both of you facing the stairs, your bodies meshed tightly. While you reach up and hold on to each side of the staircase for support (or to the stairs themselves), he holds your hips and penetrates you from behind.G-Spot Jammer -- The woman lays on her side in an L shaped position. The man also lays on his side, his head towards her feet. He enters her, and she can stabilize herself by placing her feet on his shoulder or neck. You get great penetration, not to mention good G-Spot contact.
The Bridge -- The woman needs to lean into and arch,(start off the ground or bend the back)she needs to be supple! The man then grasps the hips and enters her, this is a slow motion position don't go too fast!
Float Your Boat -- This would take place in a whirl pool or the shallow end of a pool. The woman lies on her back and has to stay afloat while the man straddles her legs and penetrates.
The Wheelbarrow -- The woman should rest her arms on a chair while the man lifts her legs and supports her while she wraps her legs around him. He should then proceed. This is very similar to the Upside-Down, yet involves the use of a chair.
Planning Assistant -- Both man and woman lie on their backs, with woman on top of man. This allows for deep penetration when the woman arches her back away from the man, and makes both breast and clitoral stimulation quite easy. Both partners can stay parallel to one another, or may gradually move around so that they are "crossing" one another, at a 90-degree angle or so.
Upside Down -- The woman lays on her back and allows the man to enter her. She then wraps her legs around him as he lifts her up. She should hold onto him with her legs. She puts her hands on the floor as if she is doing a hand stand. He then proceeds.
Head to Toe -- The man should lie flat on his back with his legs spread and allow the woman to lower herself onto his penis, facing him. She then leans backwards, with her legs to his side and toes pointing towards his head. Both partners should be looking at the ceiling. In this position, the partners cannot see each other and must rely on their sense of touch. Neither partner has the ability to move much which focuses attention to the genitals.
Cuissade -- The woman should lie on her back with her legs to her side at a 90° angle. With the man at her side, she should raise the leg nearest to him and allow him to enter from under her thigh, (the "cuisse" in French, thus the meaning behind the name). His nearest leg should cross her body. The woman can use her thigh to control the depth of penetration, making it more exciting or intimate. This position allows the couple to be close and hold each other and kiss if they so desire.
Cross -- The woman should lie flat on the bed and open her legs to allow the man to enter her. The man should lie diagonally across the woman and rock gently from side to side after penetration. The woman can use her hands to control his movements and guide him. This position works with either the man or woman on top.
Sitting Sex Positions
Desk Detail -- Your partner lies back in a chair, his legs spread comfortably, his feet on the floor. You straddle his lap with your back to him, your body inside his legs, your arms stretched in front of you so they reach the desktop, and your feet suspended in the air. He holds your hips tightly to his lap, thrusting in small circles while you keep your legs close together.
Couch Potato -- Similar to the "Cowgirl," the woman sits on top of the man who is sitting on a couch, recliner or loveseat. She can get as acrobatic as she likes.
Fireside -- The woman should sit comfortably in a chair with her legs spread and arms on the side of the chair. The man should kneel as he enters her. The woman can lean back, using the sides of the chair for support, to allow the man more thrusting room.
Lap -- This position provides great intimacy for both partners as they can sit close to each other and kiss. The man should sit with the woman straddling his lap, facing him. When sitting on a sofa, the woman should support herself with her knees and gently move up and down. If you use a chair, the woman should place her feet on the floor and grab the back of the chair for support. This position can also be varied if the woman turns away from the man, allowing for deeper penetration.
Couch Potato -- Similar to the "Cowgirl," the woman sits on top of the man who is sitting on a couch, recliner or loveseat. She can get as acrobatic as she likes.
Fireside -- The woman should sit comfortably in a chair with her legs spread and arms on the side of the chair. The man should kneel as he enters her. The woman can lean back, using the sides of the chair for support, to allow the man more thrusting room.
Lap -- This position provides great intimacy for both partners as they can sit close to each other and kiss. The man should sit with the woman straddling his lap, facing him. When sitting on a sofa, the woman should support herself with her knees and gently move up and down. If you use a chair, the woman should place her feet on the floor and grab the back of the chair for support. This position can also be varied if the woman turns away from the man, allowing for deeper penetration.
Kama Sutra Sex Positions
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The Flag of CupidGrasping the ankles of the round hipped woman,
whose buttocks are like two ripe gourds,
raise her beautiful thighs and spread the thigh-joints widely.
Full of desire, saying sweet words,
approach her with your body stiff as a pole
and drive straight forward to pierce her lotus and join your limbs.
Experts call it "Madandhvaja"
Aphrodite's Delight
Catch hold of her two feet,
raising them till they press upon her breasts
and her legs form a rough circle.
Clasp her neck and make love to her:
This is "Ratisundara"
Throat-high
Lift the lady's feet until her soles,
lie perfectly parallel,
one to each side of her slender throat,
cup her breasts and enjoy her:
this technique is "Uthkanta"
Sky-foot
Your lovely wife lying on the bed,
grasps her own feet
and draws them up until they reach her hair;
you catch her breasts and make love:
this is "Vyomapada"
The Monkey
The round-thighed woman on the bed grasps her ankles
and raises high her lotus feet;
you strike her to the root, kissing
and slapping open-palmed between her breasts:
this is "Markata"
Dear to Cupid
She lies flat on her back,
you sit between her parted knees, raise them,
hook her feet over your thighs,
catch hold of her breasts, and enjoy her:
this is "Manmathpriya"
Equal Feet
When lovers, with legs stretched rigid
and feet caressing feet,
make love according to their hearts' desire,
"tantra" scholars call it "Sampada"
and agree it is a way to ecstasy.
The Pestle
Stiff as a pole in the bed's center,
she lies making love,
cooing and warbling like a woodpigeon,
the jewel of her clitoris well-polished:
this is "Mausala"
The Rustic
When she lies on her back,
with her two thighs pressed tightly together,
and you make love to her,
keeping your thighs outside hers,
it is "Gramya"
The Love's Noose
If, encircling and trapping her thighs with yours,
you grip so hard that she cries out in pain,
it is "Ratipasha,"
a device most charming to the ladies.
The Clinging Creeper
Her limbs, entwined in yours like tendrils of fragrant jasmine creeper,
draw taut and slowly relax in the gentle rhythm of lingam and yoni:
this is "Lataveshta"
The Bud
She draws her limbs together,
clasping her knees tightly to her breasts,
her yoni, like an opening bud,
offered up for pleasure:
this is known as "Mukula"
The Couch
When she draws up her knees
and you clamp yours about her raised thighs,
trapping them in a tight knot
while riding saddle upon her buttocks
and kissing her, it is "Shankha"
Banana Brandy, My Mary Anne and Blackberry Brittany
Guuys, I’m getting so lazy these days. The sun is up, the good guys are out and the cold cocktails seem deliciously refreshing! This is the right time for getting out on the beach / pool, with a good book (laptop / ipod) in your hands, relax and enjoy. At least this is my plan for the week 
Other than that… just received an email from some dudes that own lots of porn sites. They made a top three of their best and most loved girls and shared it with me. Truth to be told, seems I’m not so much into teens cause I look at this top choice girls and I don’t find almost anything interesting or capable of making me horny Sure, they’re fresh and their meat probably smells like baby (lol), their tits are perky and their pussies incredible tight. Oh well, so what? Ha, I must be getting older or something (or is the exact sign that I’m not old enough to appreciate the true beauty of being teen?). Anyway, you know me: I like more meaty girls, with right curves, boobs and asses.
But hey, take a look, maybe you’re into it :
First in the top is this brunette babe named Banana Brandy. Seems pretty sweet and candid. On her free tour (click on the pic to get there) she has a free video. It’s 25 seconds long and it’s from a photoshoot where she plays with her tits. Worths a look or two, lol.
2. My Mary Anne
Second most-loved girl is MyMaryAnne. I think she is the most “next door girl” type of girl, with her natural hair, no-make up and shy smile. At least this is what I saw in the pictures they send me. When I went visiting her actual site, she seemd a bit more than that. With the proper makeup and outfits, she can look quite diff
erent. You should check it out
Hope you enojoyed these girls.. and if you didn’t, don’t blame the messenger :p
See you soon, for more rough action
Eve
SpiceTwins and MiltonTwins – twin porn sites
Hey, here I am, as promised, presenting the next two twin sisters porn sites! Ladies and gents, meet the Spice Twins and the Milton Twins!
Let’s start with the Spice sisters- Hailey and Ashley, two Latina bimbos, with big fat asses and a huge sexual appetite! The girls are from South America, they’re 19 and have that body format that make even blind men turn they heads off after them, hah!
Don’t ask me who’s Hailey and who’s Ashley, cause I have no idea, but – after all, who cares? These girls come in pairs, so you get 2 for the price of 1 and that sounds like a sweet deal to me.
I look at these sisters and I try to imagine how did they came up with the idea that they should became content for a porn site. I mean, do you just wake up one day and say “uhm, you know what I though, sis? Let’s get into porn. You know, let’s have a site where we can get naked and have sex with guys and girls, together!!!” Like that? Haha, sounds brutal.
Now, about the Milton Twins. These sisters seem
a bit more naughty to me, I mean – they do share the same cock and the same pussy! Uh oh, not like, lol! What I ment is that they have sex with the same guy / girl in the same time and they also seem to enjoy it a lot! Take a look for yourself:
Pretty rough, if you ask me
Also, be sure to visit t
ree tour - they offer a sexy free video, where you can see the girls present their-selves (their names are Marissa and Melissa, lol), saying that they’re identical twins with identical tastes. They also show how the sisters get hardcore fucked by the same dude and how they lick the same pussy. I can vouch that this site is lots of fun and if you decide to become a member, expect lots of updates and extraordinary sets of pics and videos with this absolutely nasty sisters!
I’m still undecided if twin porn sites are sick o
r not, but I’m sure about one thing: I enjoy it and get some nice pervert feeling kn
owing that these girls are sisters and they get banged in the same time…
Kisses,
Yurizan videos
Hey guys,
I know… it’s been a long time. But I just haven’t found something interesting enough to be blogged about. I have more porn blogs, but this is the one the I love most and that represents me and only my tastes. So, unless I find something worth sharing, I’m usually not tempted to write here. Sorry But I will try to write at least once a week from now on :”> !!
Ok, so what made me today open the “write new post” page? Well, her name is Yurizan Beltran and her new site is called SweetYurizan. She’s a spicy latina with a body that truly gives me shivers! Great big (uhm, huge actually) tits on a teen, curvy body. Her ass is not as huge as I would have wanted to be, but probably it’s better this way, my imagination usually creates deformed images, lol (huge tits and asses on small waists).
Let’s see some photos that link to free Yurizan videos (& Yurizan Beltran galleries):
Isn’t she gorgeous? With a body and attitude like that, I bet it’s great fucking SweetYurizan! After watching so much porn I came to the conclusion that beauty isn’t everything, even when it comes to pure fucking. You need a special charm, energy, way of looking, smiling, smelling and moving to be truly good in bed. And, I don’t know why, but Yurizan seems to have all these ingredients. She’s not only gorgeous as a goddess, but she also enjoys her body, you can see it in the way she plays with her tits, moves her ass slowly or smiles into the camera.
Here are 2 bigger and full-size body pictures with Yurizan Beltran, maybe you’ll see better what I meanDo you see these tits of hers? Soft and juicy, they’d be perfect as a head pillow or passionate bites. Uh, or a tit job. Or just sucking, licking and rubbing her perfect nipples. Or watching them going up and down while she’s riding you cowgirl style. Damn possibilities! 
Nicole Graves pics
Hi guys,
as always, I though that we should celebrate the beauty of Christmas by admiring the work of God in it’s greatness! And what better way of doing that, than watching some sexy Nicole Graves pics with her dressed as a sexy Santa babe!
Our Santa girl is not only sexy, but naughty as well! Nicole Graves must be one of the nastiest of her kind, playing with her pussy a lot and pushing her down on a clear glass dildo. You’d be surprised on how many women desire as Christmas gifts a new year full of sex and a big cock to fuck them crazy. Well, seems that Nicole Graves had no faith in Xmas wishes, cause she took what she needed: a big sex toy to fill up her hungry and wet pussy.
Enjoy the Nicole Graves pics and come back before New Eve’s, cause I’m gonna blog about more Santa sweeties!
Cold sugary kisses and Merry Christmas,
Eve}{
Jessica Difeo pics
Hello all,
you know I promised I’ll be back with more Santa cuties? Well, it couldn’t get any cuter than Jessica Difeo!
This babe has the most amazing smile and a stunning toned body! I watched the Jessica Difeo pics for more than 10 minutes and I really can’t take my eyes of her! She’s not only beautiful in the usual sexy way but also seems like a really cool person. She’s all laughter, funny and feeling good. Well, probably anyone with an ass as Jessica Difeo’s would feel the same, lol.
A few facts about this lovely Santa babe:
Jessica Difeo’s birth city is Hampton Beach, CA and she’s a Taurus, her tits measurements are 34 C, she’s obsessed with ice cream, loves strolling on the beach, working out and shopping. If you’re interested in dating her, you should know that she’s looking for great sense of humor in an outgoing, romantic, honest guy. Also, don’t make her speak in public, cause it’s something she’s terrified about
Keep in mind her description of a perfect day: “Lazy morning, followed by a walk or run on the beach. Shopping! Back home for a nice long bath, dinner with a really hot guy and watch a good movie. Then I’m in bed nice and early – hopefully not alone! LOL that was way more than an afternoon – oops”
Hehe, enough dreaming, enjoy Jessica Difeo pics and, of course, may you have a healthy, happy New Year!
Cozy kisses,
Eve! }{
The girl with three tits
Hi guys,
ok, I know – the porn you find here is usually unusual but this post is really a freak show, lol. By the looks of it, this girl with three tits wasn’t born like this, but the third tit looks pretty real and the chick is just hot enough to be featured here without a problem.
Don’t know if, in reality, I’d like to fuck a girl with three tits, but the truth is that these images make me pretty horny. I love freak stuff and this hun is the cherry on top of them all Imagine how these three titties bounce while you fuck her from behind or she rides you. Or, feeling the three nipples when you rub your fingers all over them. Haha, what about a tit job? This girl would surely be something special. I wonder where she shops for bras
Also, don’t forget to visit the ItsReal tour, they have free previews for more freak stuff like:
- the monster bush
- the guy with two cocks
- the girl with two pussies (two vaginas)
- the girl with multiple nipples (she has five!)
- natural EE tits
- a huge 50 inch ass (on a small waist babe)
- a girl with a tail
- super puffy nipples and more
Three lipped kisses 
,
Eve}{
Erotic Star Trek (Star Trix – Deep Penetration)
I remember watching Star Trek every Sunday afternoon, loving all those adventures and the handsome men from the ship. I even remember having an erotic dream with Data, where he performed oral sex to me for hours, without being exhausted or wanting anything else in return! I wake up extremely wet and wishing I had a Data just for myself Looks like I wasn’t the only one having impure thoughts with the crew, lol.Here’s the erotic / adult Star Trek version:
Star Trix – Deep Penetration
On this episode of Star Trix, Captain Dirk (he was better off called Dick ) gets sent on a mission to Planet Nofun battle a mutant named Gore. However, Scotty beams him to the wrong dimension where he meets space girl A Vocado who proceeds to show him their highly sexual culture and the super fucks they were able to perform.
Dirk bangs the Orion Girl before making it back to the Intercourse. Captain Dirk then heads to the medical bay to check on Uhora who has come down with a serious case of the small cocks. He then orders Boner McJoy to fuck the small cocks outa her. Once her illness is lifted, news of an intruder alert brings the crew back to action. A female stringon is found tampering with the Sex Drive. Find out the conclusion on the next epsiode of Deep Penetration… 
Also, if you decide to join this site, you’ll also find porn versions of movies like:
- Ghost Busters
- Miami Vice
- Harold and Fubar
- Top Gun
- Superman
I’m telling you – this site is lots of fun, and if you’re a big fan of any of these, you’ll really gonna love it, because they’re well done parodies, not just some poor costumes and some fucking, but funny dialogs, catchy remarks, well played characters. And also, if you’re not into any of the films – you’ll still be able to enjoy some super fine ladies getting hardcore fucked.
Sandra – MetArt
MetArt website is well known for their beautiful, fine girls. From time to time, when hardcore doesn’t do it for me anymore (lol) I like to wander through their babes. They’re classy, smart, elegant, exquisite. If the other porn actresses were prostitutes from the street’s corner, these would be high class companions
So, my tonight’s visit brought me to Sandra. Her face is lovely, in some pics she even looks a bit goth. Sandra has a small but voluptuous mouth that I would love to see one day wrapped on a cock and beautiful eyes. Her tits are also fine although not very big. But smooth and soft enough to compensate that
Sandra’s gallery has 18 pics but unfortunately none of them show us a pic with Sandra’s ass from behind, with her legs spread a bit, so we can see her velvety pussy lips. I think that’s my favorite pose for a woman and it’s a shame I didn’t get to see Sandra’s pussy ready to receive some doggystyle fucking (well, seems my mind goes constantly to hardcore mode )
Little Hell Cat
Hello again, today!
As my last post was really sad (for me at least) I decided I should post something good, hoping it would cheer us up a bit. So, I searched my email, looking for the latest porn news my friends sent me. New girls in porn, new videos, few scandals, a bit of sexy stuff, nothing out of the ordinary. Except Little Hell Cat.
I am not a big fan of girls that look younger than they are. I am also not a big fan of skinny babes, with no ass and no tits. Except maybe Little Hell Cat She has something seductive about her, she’s small, her tits are tiny and her pussy looks really tight. This girl looks like she shouldn’t be fucking but she’s having the time of her life doing it.
In the picture above (the first one), she claims she was celebrating her 18 years old birthday. Blowing some candles, blowing some cock and getting your ass hardcore fucked… uhm, yes, sounds like the right thing to do on your birthday, lol.
