Many couples feel that the woman on top position is the greatest way to make love. It permits deep penetration, and affords a woman more control over the movement and, speed and depth. For many women, this position is the only one through which orgasm is possible during intercourse.
This position is quite common and useful for pregnant couples, especially in the later stages of gestation. Note our recommended position for pregnant couples below for the best of the best.
In this section we describe some popular sexual positions. If you would like to explore this topic in greater depth, we recommend Sexual Positions For Lovers. Hosted by a Harvard trained sex therapist, this video shows real couples demonstrating a variety of unique positions. Watch it with someone you love.
The flower indicates positions which are a bit easier to manage for both partners or one partner in particular, and require a bit less stress for both.
The pretzel indicates positions that are a bit more advanced than the usual fare.
Regardless of the position you choose, it is always important to practice safer sex. We highly recommend Crown Condoms, from Okamoto, the makers of Beyond Seven. This is the thinnest condom on the market, providing the highest level of sensitivity possible combined with the quality and uncompromising safety that comes with the Okamoto name.
The Woman On Top Position Described
This position is largely self explanatory. The male lies on his back while his partner straddles his torso. She controls the rhythm and depth of penetration. He lies supine with movement inhibited somewhat by her weight and his lack of leverage. Some women prefer to lay forward so she may kiss her mate, while others choose to sit up straight. Regardless of which you prefer, an interesting idea is to just rock back and forth or in a circular motion while resting on your partner’s body. There is more clitoral stimulation this way, and it also has the advantage of the feeling of deep penetration, which some women really like. Another great advantage is that this motion is less stimulating than copulation (which is a lot of thrusting up and down) for a man, and thus he can often last longer this way.
A particularly enjoyable addition to this position is the Diving Dolphin. This ring fits over the penis and provides exquisite clitoral stimulation for her while she's on top. If there's one toy made for enhancing the female superior position this it. A vibrating ring truly designed for couples.
Or to add a little spice and an interesting twist which is pleasureable for both partners you may want to try the Fukuoku 9000.
Adding to Woman On Top Position 1: Open and Closed
In what is a true reversal of the missionary position, this form of the female superior position will give you both intense feelings of stimulation that you will try to attain with every position after it. The man lies on his back with his legs spread apart. She straddles his torso and allows him to enter her normally. She then lies on top of him closing her thighs. Because her thighs are closed, more pressure is placed on the penis which can be pleasurable to both men and women. The sensations are intense and this position will normally bring most men to orgasm quite quickly. Of course he is not the only one being pleased.
Adding to the Woman On Top 2: About face
This position requires that the woman sit with her back to him. The male lies on the bed and the female straddles his torso, kneeling on either side of him. From this position she can put her hands on his knees, giving her the leverage to lift off. This position forces the penis into an uncommon angle, which many women find extremely exciting.
The opportunities to enhance are only as limited as your imagination. The male may wish to explore female anal stimulation during this position. Anal stimulation of the female is often very pleasurable during coitus. For those of you who want to explore this avenue of pleasure, you can start by just pressing on the anus with your fingers. You can then progress into further degrees of anal stimulation during this position if this technique is not intense enough. (If you want to learn more about anal stimulation please look our section on Anal Sex).
If she wants to give him additional stimulation during this position she can reach down with one of her hands and massage his scrotum. Gentle pulling or massaging is often very desirable for men.
Adding to the Woman On Top Position 3: The Ultimate Embrace
Perhaps the most sensual and intimate positions of all is the Ultimate Embrace (as we've called it). If you are in love, sexually active and want to experience a meditative-like state of passionate lovemaking, this position is for you. We should warn you that (as with all positions) the Ultimate Embrace can only work to its full potential when its taken slowly and lovingly. This is not sex, its true lovemaking in the complete sense of the word.
Its actually quite simple. Begin with the female on top position. The woman should sit up straight and get comfortable. Now, the man sits up with her, holding her in his arms and she holding him. Now the important part: do nothing. Don't move, just look at each other, hold each other or talk lovingly to one another. Kiss for a while, laugh, close your eyes. For the next while, just enjoy the feeling of ultimate closeness and tenderness. Those deeply in love will relish this one the most. Enjoy.
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