Rear-Entry Positions

Rear entry offers some types of stimulation that other positions can't. From behind, a man has more room to move and alter the thrusting movements he wishes to make. Likewise the female has a certain degree of movement that is impossible in other positions. She can work in tandem with her partner guiding the speed and depth of penetration.

Some couples do not find rear entry positions that enticing. Some complain that there is a lack of intimacy because the two partners cannot see each other in the passionate moments they are spending together. The male gets an intriguing view of his lover while the female normally must stare at the wall or bed. The addition of a mirror to the bedroom can reduce this effect. This way the two partners can see each other and if you set up the mirrors with some imagination, you can both witness your passion from any angle you choose.

Below we give you an overview of the rear entry position - if you would like a little more detail, try Sexual Positions For Lovers. Hosted by a Harvard trained sex therapist, this video shows real couples demonstrating a variety of unique positions.

The flower indicates positions which are a bit easier to manage for both partners or one partner in particular, and require a bit less stress for both.

The pretzel indicates positions that are a bit more advanced than the usual fare.

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The Rear Entry Position Described

Also known by some as "doggy style" the rear entry position is fairly easy to assume. The woman gets either on her hands and knees or lays stomach first on the bed with her lover behind her. He is on his knees or sometimes his feet, and develops leverage by grasping on to her hips. Depending on preference the man's legs can be inside of the women's legs or outside of them. Couples may wish to have the woman's legs closer together because it creates more friction between the penis and vagina.

In this position a man has a great deal of freedom for thrusting. Her movement is somewhat restricted but this can be easy modified with an ottoman or low bed. The woman can then rest the upper half of her body on a supporting structure. This in turn gives her more freedom to move her hips and pelvis. The rear entry position offers the couple a chance at experiencing new sensations because the angle of entry is different while deep thrusting is made much easier. All these factors contribute to a particularly intense experience if you are with the right partner. Most men find that it is difficult to prolong their orgasm while in this position. The stimulation is often too intense or overwhelming. Consequently the couple may wish to save the rear entry position as a way to end their lovemaking session.

Adding to The Rear Entry Position 1: Forward for Pleasure

While the man lies on his back on the bed, the female approaches him and straddles his hips with her back to him. Many people may have tried this position because it is a simple variant of the woman on top position. The true joy comes when she leans forward as far as she can. Some women may want to grab onto their partner's legs and pull themselves down to the bed. In so doing she drastically alters the angle of penetration. Some couples may find that it is uncomfortable until they adjust the angle of her hips a little. Once this adjustment has taken place she will find sensations unlike any other. She can then rock back and forth with his legs for support or he may wish to support her hips with his arms to assist her movement.

Although it is very pleasurable this position provides little clitoral stimulation. Consequently women who enjoy direct clitoral stimulation may not enjoy this position as much as their partner.

Adding to the Rear Entry Position 2: The chair revisited

That wonderful recliner can be used for another very satisfying, very relaxing sexual position. This one is particularly great for those men who have limited mobility due to accident or illness. The male just sits comfortably upright in a chair while the woman sits down on his lap as if she was using the chair as well. Her back is pressed to his chest. The onus is on the female to provide all the movement in this position but this movement is extremely easy. With the support of her arms the female can use her legs to move rapidly or slowly depending on the couple's preferences.

If a chair is not convenient for you then you may wish to try a similar position on your bed. Here the male kneels down with his buttocks on his ankles. The female is directly in front of him allowing themselves to be elegantly joined. There is not a great deal of movement available to the couple but this position is very sensual and is recommended for afterplay. When the couple is sitting joined, the male can fondle her breasts or even massage her back. Often it is very satisfying just to sit and hold her with soft music in the background. From this position you both can move in unison and lay down on your sides allowing greater comfort for both partners. Intercourse does not have to revolve around thrusting; it can be slow, intimate and tender.

Adding to The Rear Entry Position 3: Face down

One of the most common modifications for the rear entry position is involves the female lying face down on the bed with her legs spread apart. The male then straddles the female's thighs from behind. To facilitate easy entry it is useful to place a pillow underneath her abdomen to shift the angle of her hips. Also she can place a pillow beneath her head for added comfort.

Most men will find that establishing a rhythm with this position is quite difficult. The problem is that the penis has a tendency to slip out of the vagina forcing the couple to restart their lovemaking. Take your time and start with slow shallow thrusts until you have managed to coordinate a balanced rhythm.

Adding to The Rear Entry Position 4: Face Up

Lounging while lovemaking is true bliss. It gives the couple time to discuss how they feel about the moment which can fuel the fires of passion. Expanding your repertoire should include some positions dedicated to the relaxing coital pleasures. This one is a very simple variation on the Face Down position. The male lies on his back on the bed while the woman lays on him with her back pressed against his chest. For the men who can support her weight comfortably this position is a delight. It allows the man easy access to the clitoris which can be massaged during the act. This position is excellent for pregnant couples because it puts no stress on the front part of a woman’s body.

Spicing up this position is quite easy. Massage oils can be applied by the male to the female's breasts, shoulders and stomach. Some oils will heat up when they are applied which can add extra stimulation to the experience. If you are using condoms make sure that no oil comes into contact with the condom that is in use. Other interesting ideas to add to this position may be a vibrator. She can hold a powerful vibrator near her clitoris which vibrates the vagina as well. Both male and female will experience the stimulation and rejoice in its pleasure.

Adding to the Rear Entry Position 5: Spoons

The spoons position is excellent as a relaxing, simple position virtually anyone can enjoy. Both partners face the same direction and lay on their sides, man behind woman. The man may have to slightly angle his body so that entry is more easily facilitated. Although thrusting and movement is inhibited in this position, it is very close and intimate and may be a perfect way to begin lovemaking.