The P-Spot

Ah the perineum, that sweet little patch of skin located between the scrotum or vulva and anus. I'll never forget the first time I happened upon the area in question; just tracing my fingers and then tongue over the perineum nearly had him levitating off the bed. It was like magic! Or so I thought, as it turns out the perineum is a sensory jackpot; jam-packed with nerve endings. Tantric sex practitioners have long known the power of stimulating the perineum. Stirring a little excitement in the area is said to unleash latent energy, release endorphins, and increase blood flow, all leading to greater pleasure.

Ok, I know that's all well and good, but I bet your wondering how to unleash all this pleasure. It's almost too easy! Even for the most self-conscious lover, this zone is user-friendly. It's got none of the intimidating geography of places located slightly north or south. The perineum is a simple little patch of skin that just wants a little TLC. Massaging it, tracing your finger over it, sucking and licking it all do the trick. When massaging, pressure should be firm, but not fierce. Whilst licking or stroking this area it's good to get a rhythm or pattern going. I like to trace a figure eight with my tongue which seems to work nicely :).

Stimulate the area is once your partner is already excited. During oral sex or a hand job, drop downwards and begin to fire things up in the p-spot. Another wonderful idea is to massage the area during or just before he cums. Guys, those lucky sucks, are more sensitive in this area than women, but we in the Naughty Girl Collective would like to remind you fellas not to neglect our p-spots either! Although it's a little less powerful, p-spot stimulation is pleasurable for women as well. Many guys feel compelled to focus all their attention on the upper region of women's genitals while going down on her or touching her. Don't get me wrong … we would like you to spend a lot of time up there, but it's worthwhile to dip down to the lower area and perineum as well. But don't take my word for it, get down there and see for yourself!